I normally post at
Ukraine Adoption Blog and I will continue to do so. But I was given an opportunity to post on my recent research.
I would like to adopt a second child and I have been exploring my options; foster, domestic, international.
Getting Started with my second adoption has been so much harder than my first adoption.
Maybe I am just more aware of what can go wrong. And this is why my research and decision making are taking so much longer. I have been researching for more than 1 year now.
I started exploring adopting from Haiti because they allow single mothers to adopt. But then I moved onto the statistics. I am an analytical person and really appreciate numbers.
The
United States Office of Immigration Statistics produces a document called the
Yearbook of Immigration Statistics. It breaks down all international adoptions completed by American families from 1996 to 2006 by country, gender and age.
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From 1996 to 2006, Americans adopted 2,060 children from Haiti.
- 42% were male
- 58% were female
- 11% were under 1 year of age
- 48% were 1 to 4 years of age
- 41% were 5 years or older
I would like to adopt a girl over 5 years of age. This is very possible based on the above statistics.
I have also been reading the US Embassy in Haiti's
18 page document on adoption. I found out via this document that the Institut du Bien Etre Social et de Recherches (IBESR) certifies orphanages. And many of these orphanages are privately run by charities.
So I started reading about the orphanages. Many have their own
web sites. The reading just never ends. :)
It is at this point that I discovered a problem. Many of these privately run orphanages have specific religious requirements. One for example will only allow "bible Christians" to adopt children.
So I started emailing orphanages, agencies and facilitators to see if there is any chance that I could adopt. And it turned out that I wasn't the right flavor of Christian for many of these orphanages.
This was fine. I understand that everyone makes their own rules. But the rejection frustrated me. I started to give up when I found
Crèche Enfant de l’Jèsus and
Foyer de Sion. Neither one seems to have a specific religious requirement.
With that barrier out of the way I started looking at other factors. I would only be in Haiti for 3 to 5 days after the adoption was completed. And the estimated cost of $15,000 and $18,000 is very reasonable.
I understand there are
challenges. But Haiti is looking like a good adoption option for me.
Videos
God's Littlest Angels -
video 1,
video 2
For His Glory Adoption Outreach -
video 1,
video 2
New Life Orphanage
Petits Anges de Chantel orphanage
The children of Haiti are waiting