Haiti Adoption Blog

01/24/07

Why So Long? Part two

Posted by : Wendy B. in Haiti Adoption Blog at 12:00 pm , 309 words, 192 views  
Categories: Haitian Adoption, Adoption Process, The Wait, Adoption Issues
Continued from Part One...

In October of 2006, a new IBESR director was assigned. Her name is Madame Beaudin, and so far she has improved the process in IBESR and signed out hundreds of files.

The new hang-up is now with Civil Court. Adoption files are getting stuck there for months. Who knows what the reasons are? Civil Court was recently vandalized. They say they need time to clean-up before they can get back to signing files out. In Haiti, that could mean just about anything.

I have heard that files have been held up due to pride, stubbornness, and possible lack of bribes. If you ever travel to Haiti, you will understand that another cause comes into play. The Haitian … attitude. Haitians are never in a rush. Plans change at the drop of a hat. A perfect example is eating at a restaurant in Haiti. You place your order, then sit back to relax. You might get your beverage in 20 minutes, and as you slowly sip it, you wait. And wait, and wait, and wait for your order to come … for one or maybe even two hours. You might have ordered chicken spaghetti, but instead you receive rice and beans. You make a complaint, and explain the discrepancy, only to be met with the shrugging of shoulders. The look on your waitress' face says, "So what? Why do you care? You just received food. Does it matter that it isn’t what you ordered?"

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And then of course, life is plain unstable in Haiti. It does not seem to be a priority to get these orphaned children into their new homes, when there are so many other big things happening there.

I hope that answers any questions. When people ask me now what is taking so long, I usually just shake my head and say, “I do not know.”

Comments, Pingbacks:

Comment from: Holly [Member] Email · http://africa-adoption.adoptionblogs.com
More power to you, Wendy, and the other Haiti adopters. I just couldn't do it. The wait WITHOUT a referral is about enough to drive me bonkers! Good job explaining, too. I have seen that cultural difference in attitude in Africa and all over Eastern Europe. We Americans must be the oddballs. :)
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Comment from: Heidi [Member] Email · http://siblings.adoptionblogs.com
Or, there's the restaurant I went to in Port au Prince that had a fancy laminated menu with chicken sandwiches, BLT's, spaghetti, lasagne, you name it. I became excited and chose a dish...they were out of it. I chose another...they were out of it as well. Turns out all they had was rice and beans, so I don't think they ever had any of the other dishes to begin with!!
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Comment from: thomasina [Member] Email
Thank you, so much, Wendy, for explaining. I continue to wish you all best, including the opportunity to pick up your daughters with unHaitian-like speed!
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Comment from: Wendy B. [Member] Email · http://haiti.adoptionblogs.com
I think you are right, Holly. We Americans expect things NOW! It makes dealing with other countries difficult.

Ha! That is so funny, Heidi! And so accurate for Haiti. Gotta love it. :-)

You are welcome, Thomasina. And thank you for your kind words.
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